organized new year!

Well its officially the waiting game. Patience is a virtue, right? Those last weeks are always the hardest in pregnancy...you want the baby here, you don't want to go through labor, you want to have it over...AH the confusion.

So, to ease my mind...I'm thinking of how to organize the new year.

Who's with me?

In between working for North Hills Admissions, being a mama, and being a wife, I plan to do a few things differently this year.

Though none of us have to wait until the "new year" to change, I think its more fun that way.. :)

Last year my new year's goal was to "simplify" our life.  For the first time ever, I believe I SUCCEEDED in a new year's goal!  I went part-time (major simplification...and not a choice for everyone I know), I de-cluttered our newly built house, finished many projects along the way, cooked more meals at home, transitioned us to eating at the table together each night, and simplified our health by finding a great natural alternative in essential oils. The only part of my house that isn't organized now is the office and garage, next on the list don't worry!

When I look back and think of everything we went through last year, its amazing.  The Lord was so gracious to me as a new mom and a fairly new wife.  We have raised a toddler together and now have an anointed God-sent little boy coming into the world.

So, what about this year? Well...I have two goals for our family.  Because you all know, and understand, MOM RUNS the family...right? :)

GOAL 1~
Organize our "office" side of life.

I am driven this year to form a family budget, and keep EVERYTHING paperwork in order.  After all, being home more, it really should be more of my responsibility to do this.

I found a great lady who has free budget binder templates.  That is what I plan to get ready this week. Here is her link- http://www.thirtyhandmadedays.com/  She really has great ideas with organizing your life in binders.  Some of them are a little unnecessary in my opinion, but hey....someone might need them!



In this goal, I plan to make our office in tip top organization to help promote this habit.  If you have a cluttered space it doesn't help you get motivated at all.  No more organized chaos! Anything that hasn't been used or needed in the last year will be tossed or donated.

I purchased, from Walmart, this (well, one like it but for only $5) letter holder to go by our door.  It will hold things to mail, and important documents that need to go out with us when we run errands.  NO more leaving it on the counter top to accidentaly get scooped up.

One other project in the "office organization" is a file box for each of my kids. ^^(picture above) These were found on pinterest via a lady's blog, here- http://destinationofdomestication.blogspot.com/2011/08/baby-boxes.html.

What a great way to start organizing all of that crazy paperwork and keepsakes! This is at the top of my list to start for Luke and Emma this year.  I'll be glad I started it in 18 years. ;)

GOAL 2~
 More Bible Study

With the "3 gift" Christmas, (which was really neat by the way) I purchased Garrett his own study Bible, since our dog decided to use his as a bathroom a few years ago.  He's been surviving on a little travel ESV Bible since... so I purchased him the Ryrie Study Bible (Found here-ESV Study Bible ) It is great, and we love the quality of it.

My parents, being the "sweetness" that they are, found me the journaling ESV Bible ( Journaling ESV ) along with a book on how to do annotations to connect with God in Scripture (Writing In The Margains).  PLUS highlighters and a pen to kick off the year of study.  With a new baby, Garrett and I have fallen into trying to sleep/rest more than studying the Word together.  We both hope to make it more of a priority this year.  I can't wait to see what kind of things God teaches us!

So what are your new years dreams for making life better this year?

-Kay





Recap on our Christmas- 
For those of you who were wanting to know about the 3 gift Christmas, see my last post about the meaning behind it.  This year, Garrett and I gave each other a new rocking chair for Luke's room to make those sleepless nights a little more comfy.  ;) But below are the other gifts we gave in our little family-

Emma-
Want- Bitty Baby Doll (from my childhood) with diaper bag
Need- Melissa and Doug latch board (Link-latch board...don't tell her, but this was free with old Huggies points I stashed away..lol)
Spiritual- Kidkraft Noah's Ark, which she loves! (Link-Ark Sorter)

Garrett-
Want- rocking chair
Need- A really nice pancake griddle with a warming tray for our pancake cookin' Daddy, he was so excited to make them for us Xmas morning!
Spiritual- Ryerie Study Bible

Me-
Want- rocking chair
Need- Much needed PJs ;)
Spiritual- Moravian Star for the top of our tree...I nearly cried, its so beautiful.

CHRISTmas not GIFTmas :)

Don't get me wrong...I love gifts, and I love giving them.  But oh MY how America has transformed Christmas into what you will GET rather than what we have already been GIVEN by our Lord.

 While Garrett and I have been prepping for the Live Nativity here at our house (sponsored by our church for ...over 20 years now?) ...we are reminded of the beautiful gift God gave us.  It warms my heart to know that my kids will always take part in making this Nativity reminder for the community.   It isn't flashy, it isn't fancy.
Its in an old barn with mason jar luminaries leading the way.
An old Moravian star is hung in the barn just like it is every year.
The costumes were made by the ladies of the church years ago with old underwear bands and sheets.

But its beautiful.
Its serene and peaceful.

If you haven't had the chance to come see it, I invite you to do so...with your family.  Sunday at 6:30-8 pm.

It put me to thinking... we are having two kids this year.  We have traditions to set for them, and expectations to set before them.  As a child, I loved Christmas...it was a magical time where my parents poured their heart out to give to us.  We normally didn't have much at all, and Christmas was a time of giving to each other.  And the funny thing is...Santa wasn't really ever a part of it.  GASP! I know... a magical Christmas without Santa? ...or in my case it wasn't without Santa...I only got one thing from him and he just was never a big deal.  And they stopped mentioning Santa when Matt came along (7 years later) I don't think I ever remember him asking if Santa was real.  He still had the same magic in his eyes that I did.  He'd barrel down the hallway and nearly slip and slide to get to the living room after Dad read the Christmas story from the book of Luke.  Christmas was about family and love.

I want my kids to experience this feeling.

Christ's innocent, peaceful love.

So.. I've heard a lot about the "Three Gifts" Christmas tradition and I think I'm hooked.  If you haven't heard what that is, here's a short summary.

The three gifts Christmas is a reminder of the three gifts brought to Jesus.  Gold, Myrrh, and Frankincense.  Gold symbolizes a "want", Myrrh symbolizes a "need" and Frankincense symbolizes a "spiritual" gift.  So, your focus on Christmas is to gift each other with these three things.  This keeps it simple, focused, and not excessive.  And what a great reminder of the REAL meaning of Christmas.  We say that, but... how much do we attempt to REALLY remind ourselves that Christ is the only reason you are celebrating Christmas anyway?

So this year I think I've come up with some really good ideas for both of the sweeties in my life.  Can't wait to share what they are...but for now...they are a secret. :)

And what about Santa?

Well...I've thrown around the idea of how to still bring a tiny bit of the Santa magic to my kids lives....and I really like the idea of Santa filling their stockings.  It keeps some mystery and magic (believing when you don't see) without getting out of hand.  We shall see!

What does your family do?

Strength in Sickness

Its coming, you know it.  You get that sniffle...that achy stomach.  Immediately you think to yourself, "NO. Please don't be getting sick."

That is what hit me at midnight on Tuesday.  The aching and the thoughts that the stomach flu had hit our house for the first time in years.  And oh did it.  I was the most sick of all, out of our whole family.  Its so easy to start feeling sorry for yourself as soon as you get sick...and in this case I did, which was completely wrong.  I tried "praying" and notice I put that in quotes.  My heart wasn't in it.  I was exhausted (no excuse) and defeated (still no excuse).

What are we to do then? I can tell you simply...we fall to Satan.


James 4:7 says "Submit yourselves, then, to God.  Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God, and He will come near to you." That is exactly what I failed to do.  I failed to resist the devil completely.  I felt sorry for myself, felt sick, payed attention to my flesh. The last part of myself that I should have paid attention to.

2 Thessalonians 5:23- You are made up of spirit, soul, and body...and you must take care of them in that order.  Your spirit (the Holy Spirit), your soul (mind, will, and emotions) and your flesh body.  How many times in life do we do that order completely opposite? I struggle with it so much.  We focus on our bodies to make them beautiful, or healthy, but the main goal is to keep our spirit and our soul healthy...and the body will follow.

This mistake of mine led to a five hour hospital visit hooked up to every IV and labor and delivery monitor you could think of, while all the time I'm thinking "Why am I here? This could have been rebuked from the beginning!"


It was such a learning experience for me in two ways.

1.) Your words and thoughts are SO very powerful.  They shape your soul...and they are YOUR choice and yours alone.  I know this in my heart so true, yet I still struggle with it like anyone else.  I've believed for years that if someone doesn't believe they will get well- they won't.  You can pray for someone, and that is a wonderful thing, but if they do not have the strength to believe that they will be healed, it won't happen.

2.) God has given me an incredible gift.  This gift is overlooked so many days out of the week, and neglected on some days too.  Of all of the gifts I've received, it is the most precious (besides my salvation).  I know you are probably thinking, oh she's talking about her Bible or scripture...well no...I include those in salvation.
This gift is Garrett.  No, I'm not putting him on a pedestal, I know better.  Throughout my life I've been taught that putting others up high would only harm my spirit and soul.  No...but I do thank God for him every day.  I do not near deserve the love that he gives.  Sounds familiar doesn't it?  Lately, through two back to back pregnancies,  looking my worst, acting my worst...I felt surely he would be tired of me.  But no.  He still looks at me like we are 17 years old.  And just this year, it has hit me like  a ton of bricks- he loves me no matter what.  I truly believe that God gave me him to SHOW me a glimpse of the Lord's love in everyday circumstances.  I grew up seeing this in my Daddy.  Even at such a young age, I understood it.  I knew that the patience, kindness, and love that he had was like no other.  I grew up seeing it, but I still always had a hard time believing God could love me so much through the rough times.  Why would he want to love someone who forgets to read their Bible, who doubts, who whines, etc.  Its an unfailing love.  And thank you Lord for this glimpse of it here on earth....I am so grateful for both you and him. <3


So...maybe this will speak to you if you are struggling with sickness right now.  Or maybe you can save these thoughts until later when you need them.  I am in no way someone to give advice.  I just don't mind writing down what I've gone through. :)

Have a blessed day!

Kay

A Spirit of Thanks

Has anyone seen the "black friday preview" ads? They have actually managed to start their black friday sales DURING Thanksgiving dinner. Call me crazy, but there is no way on God's green earth that I would go choose to shop during Thanksgiving dinner. No "deal" is worth that. It makes me sad in many ways...

1- I love Black Friday. Sure, I never get that "tv for $50" but I always have the best time shopping for others, and being that annoying happy girl in the midst of grumps. Well...with it starting at 6pm...I guess I wont be joining them.

2- What is our country coming to? Can't they just leave holidays where they are on the calendar? We skip right over Thanksgiving because there's no sales profit for it unless you are a grocery store.

Well...in the spirit of Thanks, I will share with you what we will be doing. Maybe it will spark some thanks in your life too.

For the first time, I am hosting Thanksgiving! I am so excited...its one of my favorite holidays. Yummy food, family, and giving thanks. My family has SO much to be thankful for and I want my kids growing up with a thankful, loving heart. Each place at our table will have a place to write what you are thankful for, along with a notecard with a Bible verse. 

The menu is a blend of family "must haves" and Pinterest. Here is our list of yummies:

-turkey, stuffing, and gravy (made by my wonderful mawmaw)

-mashed taters

-dressing

-corn casserole

-sweet potato casserole 

-fried green beans

-stuffed mushrooms (my specialty)

-homemade rolls

-cranberry sauce

-pumpkin pie

-pinterest appetizers

-crockpot apple cider...yumm!!!

Now you cant be at my house and not see some homemade decor...so here is my inspiration board. Ive done a few of these so far, and I have to say, its added some warmth around here! 

1 Thesselonians 5:18 "Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you who belong to Christ Jesus."

Homemade Ranch

This is the yummiest homemade rach, yumm!!! Couldnt help but share. I made a quadruple batch to share with my brother. (Hes obsessed with ranch lol)

1c sour cream
1/2 c buttermilk (the real stuff...its thicker)
1T lemon juice
1 clove garlic minced
1T parsley
1/2t onion powder
3/4t sea salt
1/2t black pepper
1/8t dill (I used the last of my dried dill from our summer garden, wahh.)

Mix sour cream, lemon juice, and buttermilk, whisk. Then add all dry ingredients. Enjoy!!!

Fresh Fed Baby

Since a lot of people have been asking how I feed Miss Emma Boo, I figured it'd be easier to just post a "go to" for homemade baby food. So if you're not into making baby food, you can stop reading here ;)

*Months 4-5- Introduce foods one at a time, starting with apples and peas. (Funny thing is, those are still her favorites) Introduce a food for 3 days only mixing it with previously tested foods. This was helpful, because we found out Emma couldnt eat yellow squash!

*Months 6-8- try all kinds of yummies...(keeping to the 3 day rule) zucchini, kale, spinach, peaches, bananas, sweet potato, white potato, eggplant, green beans, corn (not much of this), brown rice, oatmeal, quinoa, pears, avocado, squash, broccoli, asparagus, blueberries, strawberries, plums, and carrots.

The way to cook them is to steam (if needed) in either a steamer, pot, or covered microwave pot. (I did add cinnamon to some mixes at 9 mo old and she loved it!) After steaming, puree and add water. After the single items have gone through the 3 day test, I'd blend them to make mixed meals. No citrus fruits!

*Month 9-12- Introducing chicken and beans! Yummy! Black beans you just cook thoroughly and then puree with broth and I mix apples with it.  have found, recently, that the best way to do a huge batch of chicken or turkey dinners are with my crockpot. I cook it all day, covering it with water, add a stalk of celery and carrots to flavor, and then you have plenty WITH broth and carrots to make dinners. For a whole chicken, (which runs $5-$9 youll get 15-30 chicken dinners!) The key is to mix about 1 part chicken to 2 parts veggies/grains. For example, Ill fill my blender a third of the way with chicken and then the rest of the way with what I want to add to it. Mom and I noticed such a difference in Emma when she eats proteins. Shes sooo much happier! And plus she has that long beautiful hair...thanks protein!  Be sure to add chicken broth to these when you blend or it will not blend it and yoj will wear out the motor!

These are Emmas favorites below-

*Chicken, pineapple, brown rice
*Chicken, carrot, green apple
*Chicken, sweet potato, kale (add cinnamon)

Now, side note....I DO buy organic whenever possible. Aldi has great options! Food lion has whole all natural chickens, but my favorite come from lowes foods, or of course farmers markets.

*Month 12+ We are starting on table foods and sippy cup now! (Nuby brand sippy cup for the win, super cheap at Marshalls)
...Tear...where did that tiny girl go? Shes loving anything that we eat but still enjoys her homemade baby food. Im trying to make those purees last as long as I can, while making them chunkier to help her get a feel for texture! :)

Shopping/heath tips:

*We always get organic in the following since we eat them almost daily: milk, apple juice (thanks Aldi!!!), apples, bananas, greens, rice, and snacks. I get happy tot brand snacks after lots of research to find the best store bought organic brand. (You avoid nasty gmo's, gluten, and more with this brand) Yea...they are a little pricey but last a while.

*Freeze cubes of apple juice so you dont waste it! I send cubes of it, and many other things, to moms house since Emma is only there twice a week.

*Shop your local aldi first. Its smazing the organic options they have now, for super cheap!

*"Pinterest" recipes. Ive found teething cookie recipes, purees and more!

I love being a new mom. Its like you are a fresh slate for learning. :)

-Kay

For the Cooks in the House

Nesting has officially hit!!! 7 mo pregnant and I have caught myself staying up til 2 am some nights lately just cooking, cleaning, working, and reading. Better get it all organized before Luke gets here, right?

Well I figured Id share some helpful tips for easy recipes that Ive learned lately. Ill do another post for all my baby mamas on homemade baby yummies. :)

First of all Ive started to follow, on facebook/blog, the page "My Whole Food Life". She posts great crockpot recipes that only require whole foods. Its been an effort of mine to eliminate condensed soups and processed items from our meals. It makes you feel better to not have the added sodium in your diet...not to mention the other junk that is in them. You can ask Emma....our lazy susan cabinet, that was meant for canned food, is pretty much empty now. It takes a little more planning and work, but when you are used to it...its fine.

The first tip I learned is how to make your own condensed soups. Do you ever read these labels? Its not good for you at all! Well I made chicken casserole and made my own condensed soup. It was fabulous! No more Campbells Cream of Chicken for us. Here is the link- http://www.gimmesomeoven.com/condensed-homemade-cream-chicken-soup-recipe/

Now, as for the chicken casserole, I kept two whole chickens in the crockpot for 9 hours...the house smelled divine. I covered them both with water, added a few organic baby carrots and some celery along with salt, pepper, thyme, and celery seed. Once the 9 hours was up, I de-boned the chicken...the least fun part....and had a huge mixing bowl full of yummy chicken!!! I filled a quart bag to freeze, made 16 chicken dinners for Miss E, and made the yummy dinner...all while having 2 qt of chicken stock to freeze!

Recipe for casserole: dice or shred chicken, add to condensed soup (link above) and layer in bottom of 8×8 or round pie pan. (About 3.5 cups chicken). Cook stuffing to directions and add to the top. I mixed a little throughout the chicken too. Cook on 400 for 25-30 min. Yumm!

Modern Day Ninevah

Jonah 1:22 “Go to the great city of Nineveh and preach against it, because its wickedness has come up before me.”

This was what God told Jonah.  What did he do? He refused, and thought that he could run away from God.  Truthfully, in his heart, Jonah didn't really WANT the city of Ninevah to be saved...after all he was a Jew and they were Gentiles. Everyone viewed the city as completely wicked, so why would he even bother.  Sound familiar? This was "pre-Jesus" guys, but how applicable is this today? 

It has been laid on my heart for the past week to study the city of Ninevah in the Bible.  If you have accepted Jesus as Lord and you at least try to walk with the Lord...I KNOW you have to feel it too.  The sin of this nation is moving by leaps and bounds.  Selfishness, lying, stealing, murder, adultery, pride, sexual immorality, lack of concern for prayer....The sin of Ninevah was SO great that it was relevant in the heavens.  Contrary to what America believes, Christians and non-Christians, SIN IS REAL. Right now, the majority of America, and the majority of Churches are numb to sin.  It breaks my heart.  They refuse to acknowledge it with fear of being labeled as judgmental.  In reality, its passive and cowardly.  Well...guess what? We serve a God who TELLS us in scripture to proclaim the gospel- the Great Commission.  We cannot fully share the love of Christ with someone without revealing the entire nature of God.  What He loves, and what He hates.  And God hates sin! As Billy Graham wrote: "We are in an epic drought.  We not only seeing basic misunderstanding of the Word of God, there is an absence of God's complete Word." 

I'm sure God is aware of the great sins of this nation as well...and we are tempted, as Jonah was, to just turn our backs on the wickedness that surrounds us and claim we have nothing to do with it.  It was one of the greatest revivals in the Bible.  It wasn't someone telling Ninevah, "Oh its okay, God loves you, you can do what you feel is okay."  It was a revival with a message of repentance from their sins.  And the city of Ninevah believed.  Everyone from the King on down repented and they were forgiven of all of their wickedness.  A city that people had lost hope in....just like we are losing hope in America.  But you know what the awesome thing is- we won't lose hope in our God, we know not to!  A revival CAN happen in America! 

I stumbled upon a link that really caught my attention.  Of course it was talking about Ninevah.  Did you know that the great revival pastor Reinhard Bonnke, from Africa, has now realized (from the Lord a few years ago) that AMERICA is the one in need? Over 72 million people in Africa saved, and he comes to America.  He and other great theologians have joined together in an effort to bring revival to this nation.
Read more at the link:http://mobile.wnd.com/2013/08/94-year-old-billy-grahams-warning-for-america/

More than likely I'm going to start a study on this part of scripture, about Ninevah, if anyone would like to join me.  Searching now for a good credible study to do. Who is ready to learn what God has in store for us as Christians within a modern-day-Ninevah? I am! We have nothing to fear...God loves and protects his children...and he has a divine purpose for each of us! If not for yourself, do it for your children and the children of others, because the America that we once lived in is fading away. 

If you haven't already viewed the video by Toby Mac you can view it here-City on Our Knees It has references in it from Billy Graham about Ninevah.  Powerful words to the song when you think of revival in America.  

"Through the fog there is hope in the distance, from cathedrals to third world missions, 

love will fall to the Earth like a crashing wave....

we could sail across the sea, to a city with one King- a city on our knees." 

So the bottom line? Hit your knees. We won't be leaving that spot for a while. :)

-Kay






Scripture and other things to think on: 

-“Now the Spirit [of God] expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons, speaking lies in hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared. … If you instruct the brethren in these things, you will be a good minister of Jesus Christ, nourished in the words of faith and of the good doctrine” (1 Timothy 4:1-2, 6).

-Paul's words about the Word of God-   Paul wrote in connection to the Gospel: “For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them … so that they are without excuse, because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God … but became futile in their thoughts. … Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, who exchanged the truth of God for a lie” (Romans 1:18-21, 24-25).

-Definition of a coward: "Someone who refuses to do the right thing for fear of consequences"

Back to Back

Ever wondered what it'd be like to have two babies back to back? Well I'm one of those blessed ones to find out. One of my biggest fears was that Emma wouldnt get what she'd need once baby 2 comes along. I'm starting to see that isn't even close to reality. Her life will be so much more wonderful with a lifetime best friend. A few tips I've picked up for having two close together:

1.) Your husband is your partner in crime. Seriously do NOT know what I'd do without Garrett. He does anything I need for Emma no matter what time. He also pours his heart out into his baby girl.

2.) You can wesr two babies at once. Lol...if you are a fan of "babywearing" you'll know what I mean. Here's a picture from our morning walk-

...notice you can see baby two popping out too ;) Want to baby wear while you are 7 mo pregnant? Well...obviously it CAN be done! Excuse Emmas opinionated self, she wouldnt leave her right arm inside the ergo OR leave a bow in her hair. Fun morning lol!

3.) Stay in hiding for the first 4 months. Haha this one actually makes me laugh and Ive heard many moms say it. I remember wanting to stay in hiding with Emma those first 4 months...it was insane! Well Luke will be born in the harsh winter months, so we probably will just snuggle down in our house and never leave. ;) 

Verse of the day: Prov 4:23 "Above all else guard your heart, for everything you do comes from it." 

I can thank my Mama for this verse. Its one of her favorites. And its a constant reminder that it is YOUR job to guard your heart from things that arent good. Happy Friday!!!

Catching Up

I seriously feel like I had fallen off the face of the earth! So many events going on lately, including Miss Priss' birthday party. One year old already? Cant be. :(

Heres a few pictures of her party. Pinterest-inspired farm theme: pink, red gingham, and cow print. It was so much fun getting everything ready and naming all the snacks after "farm lingo". ;)

Carrie made an amazing cake with a homemade baby cow on top. Emma was nottt impressed with this thing called "cake", and she screamed in embarrassment...made for funny memories. 

Kuddos to my amazing hubby for organizing the garage for the event. Especially since it rained, I was thankful for a covered area.

He even organized a hay ride for everyone, complete with rain! ;) 

Im sure Im not the only one who has felt this way, but I have been so burdened by our country and the choices that have been made. There are so many times that I blink and think, is this really happening? ISIS, Same sex marriage, and even just the lack of wisdom in things as little as the foods that we eat... do I want to bring another child into this world? Truthfully no. But God reminds me that I must persevere and raise them into adults who know Him. They will be few and far between. 

Ive started listening to 106.9 instead of klove for the simple fact that there are amazing sermons on this station daily. Tonight he talked about endurance. 

"The ones who endure to the end are true believers. Their faith is persevering, and an enduring faith. But get this- the ability to endure is produced BY the trials."

Something to think on tonight :) 

Weekend Getaway

This weekend G and I celebrated our 4 year wedding anniversary. First time ever leaving Emma overnight...and I only called my mom twice! Now I understand why people talk about time flying. It's going by so fast!

We went to the Inn on Mill Creek for the second time...loooove it there. Its super reasonably priced, quaint, clean, and right near Black Mountain. Dave cooks the best breakfasts for the guests. Sausage quiche...pumpkin waffles...so yummy. Garrett found this little slice of heaven a few years ago for my Christmas gift. I enjoyed it then, but even more this time.

I realized how important it is to MAKE yourself have getaways after you have babies. You are thrown into parenthood, and contrary to what others think, it doesnt "stop" when you need a break. Babies and houses are a 24 hour job! :) A good job, but everyone needs a sigh of relief from responsibilities every now and then.

We ate at some amazing places. My favorite was the restaurant at the peak of Mt. Mitchell. You dine at a full glass wall of 6,000 ft elevation views...and yes, the leaves were changing up that high! 

We were in heaven. Maybe one day G and I will cruise Mt. Mitchell in his 1967 pickup truck...

So to all my friends who are in the same "mom" boat as me...make yourself get away even if its for the day! If you dont have a babysitter, we will find you one. ;)

You can follow the Inn at Mill Creek on facebook, and also Bridgette has a blog where she posts recipes!

Heres little Luke at 6 1/2 months :) such a sweet boy, I can tell already. 

The Little Things

Its gloomy, dreary, sick feeling weeks where you really appreciate the little things. Like your mom making dinner for you three nights in a row! Spoiled? Yes, I am. But who would deny her food? Yea...thats what I thought. 

So below are 3 new "little" favorites.

1. A homemade birthday party. :) Emma is having a farm themed birthday party and I've basically "Pinterested" (thats now an actual word, right?) everything...but with my own twist. Hoping she'll appreciate her homemade parties at our house one day when she looks back on memories. I'm sure I'll post a birthday post later, but here's a sneak peek..

Homemade farm sign for the door :)

The cutest centerpieces you ever did see. They have little cows on the bottles! $1 at Michaels! 

2. doTerra lavendar oil...oh Im officially obsessed. If its possible to get addicted to that fragrance then sign me up for therapy. My dear friend in FL sells doTerra (pure high quality EOs), and after my last EO (essential oil) post, she has educated me out the woozah. Who knew I had SO much to learn...or that there WAS so much to learn about EOs. Another post to come later, Im still researching and reviewing the samples she sent to me....but I love it so far!

3. Recipe for elderberry gummies to help this winter with adding nutrients to fight off sickness. http://thesnapmom.com/diy-elderberry-kombucha-gummies/

I absolutely love snap mom by the way.
My favorite blogs to follow are:
100 days of real food,
snap mom,
food babe (rock on),
and humbled homemaker.

One of them is from Mooresville....cant remember which one. Hippie homemaker also has some good research behind things that she posts...but can go a tad crazy on the "earthy" side sometimes ;)

Anyways....crazy long post, I'll sign off now. :) What are your favorite little things this week?

Emma would say her favorite "little" thing is not this dreary weather, but in fact her dirty ole pooh bear. She cant leave the house without this lil guy. :) 

...also I DO notice from this pic that a lint roller is much needed on sweet things car seat. Whoa babe... fuzz city!

Its still a REAL job to God.

I was just finishing cleaning up Emma's room before Garrett put her to bed.  KLove was blaring in the background, and what was said on the radio made me stop.  One of those moments where it seemed like it was meant for my ears.  Maybe it is meant for yours as well. :) 

They started off with a little bio....Ruth Bell (Graham) was born in China to a mission driven family.  Her childhood was filled with watching Chinese children, being compassionate toward them, and understanding the need to share Christ with them.  She dreamnt of serving the Lord, single handed, in the mission field...and in her mind she imagined...the far corners of the earth.  But God had another plan for sweet Ruth.  Her training and experience in China was not in vain.  It was meant for five wonderful souls- her children.  When she met Billy she fell in love and soon married him.  Her past dreams were now behind her, and she saw her future.  She stayed home and raised all five children to love their God with all of their heart.  

I found myself almost in tears listening to this tiny bit of her life.  In so many ways it reflects my own.  Spending years in college and five years teaching, I could imagine nothing else for myself but the life of a classroom teacher.  After all, I was serving the Lord, and teaching wonderful children.  It wasn't until I looked into my little girl's eyes last year in October that I knew it all had changed.  She was my student now. I didn't care how much I had to sacrifice to be home with her and teach her, I would make it happen. There would be glorious days and trying days...much like the classroom. We would fight, and make up.  She would watch intently as I told her about new things.  We would marvel at God's world in wonder as we read books....

Maybe I am the only one who feels this way...but the reason I stopped tonight is that I STILL catch myself doubting from time to time.  I doubt whether I made the right choice.  When I walk past a classroom, the feeling comes right back to me.  Inside I want to jump right in and start their next lesson on addition and use my alligator puppet for greater than/less than.  Years of lesson plans...gone to waste?  "No, Katie"...God tells me tonight. Just like Ruth's training wasn't in vain, yours isn't either.  You will raise soldiers for Me. You will use all of that knowledge for your children's minds. Ahh.  Sigh of relief.  It feels so good to be comforted by the One who knows you best.  

Life is real, He is real, and we are meant for a purpose.  Just because you are a "Mom" doesn't mean you are less than a nurse, doctor, or lawyer. Truthfully, you are all of those things plus more.  :) And through the spit up, crying, and messes...that alone gives me a great reason to smile. 

Well...that and her cute little stinky face ;)

Have a blessed night my friends! 

Also^^ this awesome toy is our night time toy. Highly recommend, if your kids are little, having a toy designated for the night time "fussiness". Thank you Teris Kidz sale for this steal! 

FALL into fall

Ever get that calming feeling inside when you see leaves blowing in the wind and pumpkins covering a drying field?
I do. Every year, Like clockwork.

Well...this year....maybe because I missed out on it last year with Emma's birth...its worse than ever.  I am craving, smelling, and even tasting fall. Summer is in the rear view for us, and on to the more cool calming season of the year.  All my life it has been my favorite time of the year.  Almost four years ago our wedding was held at the end of September.  That time from mid-September to mid-November is almost magical to me.  I even find myself jealous of my daughter's birthday month.  What a wonderful time for an outdoor farm birthday party this year!

Well, since Wednesdays are our "wind down" days in our house, I'm trying a new fall recipe.  Well...a few to be exact.  They were pinterest finds, but I'm totally smitten.  Let me know if you end up trying them and like them too!

Follow me on pinterest if you want to see all of my 50 million (exaggeration) albums with recipes and such.  There is one that is called "Fall Yums" where I stash my favorite Fall dishes. :) 

Here is tonight's menu-

Main Dish- grilled honey mustard chicken

Side Dish- baked zucchini and carrots and hashbrown casserole

Bread- garlic cheese twists

Desert- Honey Bun Cake (family recipe, ask if you want it) :)

What are your favorite things to do in the fall?

This year we are planning to go to the Pumpkin festival in the mountains.  Super stoked.  It isn't until October, so what to do in the meantime? Well, "husband of the year" booked our favorite mountain cabin for the weekend soon...to celebrate our 4 year anniversary.  Have I mentioned how awesome he is? SO excited about our getaway and going out to eat at an adult restaurant without hurrying back to a babysitter...heaven sent!

 

Adding Fall "beauties" to the house today!

A 6 month reminder...if I have the time...

Sometimes in the hustle and bustle its easy to forget Im pregnant.  When I was pregnant with Emma, every move and every feeling was examined. I took naps religiously,  and ate everything healthy. I did stretches, squats, and anticipated labor at like....week 2.  Anytime I tried to lift something, people would move heaven and earth to make sure I didnt. With poor little Luke, I feel like its flying by! No one marvels at the mystery of my pregnancy this time...which honestly keeps them from seeing how run down I look! ;) Chasing around a toddler really changes a pregnancy for sure. BUT in the midst of it all, I can feel such a peace from this kid, more so than ever. He calms me and helps me not to worry this time around. His sister will love him...I won't ignore either of them once he comes...and so on. :)

So..since Im officially 6 months pregnant, here's six great things about him:

1.) He was definitely meant for a divine reason, because he was on God's timing!

2.) He likes to snuggle. Actually not just snuggle....like nestle down into the farthest part of my bladder possible. I'll remind him one day when Mom can't "hold it" on long trips anymore because of him. ;)

3.) This kid must have an addiction to beef. Its all I want to eat! Lord have mercy, please dont let him be 9 lb because of it.

4.) If old wives tales are true, he will have a head full of hair. Because like his sister, he is giving me horrible raging heart burn!

5.) He is my daily reminder that God's plan is bigger than my own, and that God must see me fit as a mom to send me another sweetheart so soon.

6.) I cannot wait to kiss his sweet face.

We love you sweet Luke Dean :) Happy 6 months!

A Day with the Princess

What a wonderful day for it to have been so gloomy outside! Emma and I spent most of the day "nesting" as I call it. Laundry, cleaning, emails, playing together, etc. She is so much fun to be around! (Especially now that her cold is gone...much thanks to the things listed a few posts ago)

Managed to squeeze in time to make an early supper before heading to Teris Kidz sale in Mooresville. Many people know this recipe as "Mawmaw Dot vegetable soup" and oh was it yummy. Ive listed the recipe for anyone who wants to make some. Quantities arent listed because she said its up to you to put however much you want in it! I take her advice :)

Veggie/Beef Soup:
-sliced carrots
-peeled, diced potatoes
-browned and drained beef
-butter
-tomatoes, juice, and paste
-water
-salt, pepper, all spice
-black eyed peas, cooked old style (the secret ingredient!!)

Emma and I scooted out to the Teris Kidz sale in Mooresville.  For fellow mamas who love deals, this event (2x a year) is the BOMB! Yes that phrase is so outdated, but seriously...I find great deals every year there! We rarely buy new...I always buy nice used things and it pays off! Literally. ;) 

Heres Emma with her new baby stroller WITH doll for Gigis house. Best $4 ever! 

Freeze frame time

It seems like yesterday that I was counting kicks, watching what I lifted, and waiting for little Emma to arrive into the world. Little did I know, this past year would be both the hardest and most amazing all at the same time.

There's nothing anyone can say to fully prepare you for being a parent. Don't get me wrong,  advice is great, and you can glean from it....but its nothing compared to the real nights by yourself with a screaming kid. Its seriously like your world, as you know it, is turned completely around. But I catch myself staring at her sometimes and being marveled by her beauty and God's perfect design.

How is it that time flies so fast once you have a baby? Before her I feel like it poked along...and now each month is right after the next. Call me that nostalgic sappy mom...but its kind of sad to know this is her last month as a "baby".  She is on her way to being a toddler...which, dont get me wrong, is way more fun...just not as snuggly ;) 

Happy 11 months spunky Emma...we love you so much and couldn't imagine life without you. Its hard to believe in over 3 months you'll have a brother! 

To all my "soon to be parent" friends, a word of advice, soak it up...even the sleepless nights...because soon you'll wish you could freeze frame time. :) 

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Hippie Mama

Whenever I bring up natural remedies or organic health in our house Garrett just smiles...and I know what he is thinking. "This crazy wife of mine." :) I have lovingly earned the nickname "hippie" in our house. Hippie or not...the proof is in the product. And I have to say, I love natural remedies if they truly work.

I am not the type of person who is against all modern medicines, but I am very hesitant. Have I taken my fair share of medicines, yes! But I believe now that by the power of the word, and the power of natural ingredients God gave us...there are better options. After much research we DO give our kids shots, we DO use tylenol sometimes....so I guess the term hippie doesnt fully apply to me :) However, I will share with you what has helped Emmas cold turn around:

1.) Prayer. We pray in this house with the power given to us in scripture. We do not accept illness, in Jesus name!

2.) Herbs for Kids Immunity Booster: available at simply goods in downtown Salisbury.  It stinks and tastes nasty, but I add it to her food or bottle!

3.) Essential oils: very important that they are natural, therapeutic grade oils. That means no fillers or additives. I got Emma a mix of lavender (calming for sleep), peppermint,  and eucalyptus.  I rub it on her feet added to unrefined coconut oil and put socks on. Be careful with peppermint oil, it will tingle on sensitive skin. Then I put eucalyptus oil behind her ears to keep eustasean tubes open. No ear infections for us!

We also make a mix of the oils and water/coconut oil for a scentsy pot in her room. Makes a decongestant that smells lovely! (Though Garrett would beg to differ...haha!)

Hopefully this can help others with their colds this winter too!

Homemade Jumbalaya

Made my own recipe tonight for Garretts birthday-eve and oh my was it good!!! Good enough to share :) I made it up myself so tweek it however youd like. I try to buy fresh or organic when I can, if I did it is noted...and it was on sale if I bought it ;)

Cook 1 3/4 c jasmine rice (I buy organic at target), this is on the package and takes about 40 min, but it doesnt need stirred, just set a timer.

About 10 min before rice is done sautee:
- 1.5 tbs organic refined coconut oil (or reg oil) Refined means it wont taste like coconut!
- 1/3 c chopped onion
- 1/3 c chopped green pepper
- andouli sausage (I use the fresco all natural chicken sausage, at harris teeter, watch for sales!
-fresh garlic, salt, pepper to taste
- pampered chef creole spice (2.5 tbs) or substitute 3/4 tbs chili powder, 3/4 tbs paprika, and 1/4 tbs cumin

Sautee until peppers and onions are golden/tender.

Add rice and 1 large can tomatoes. Now...I used Mawmaw Dots homemade canned tomates. They were the perfect consistency.  If buying store bought Id get petite cut, and make sure you dont drain!

Sautee for about 8 min and let rest. Enjoy, it was approved by the hubs and not a nasty boxed meal...aka rice a roni. :)

Emma also approved of the plain jasmine rice with carrots and cinnamon.  And right now Luke approves of the meal...he is kicking like crazy!

Borrow some faith...and maybe some paint. ;)

There are many times that you have to be open to listening to God...even when you aren't necessarily captivated by your speaker.  Its your choice whether you will hear what God is trying to tell you. Today in our church service, I felt like I heard more than I have in a while. The sermon dealt with doubt.  We all struggle with it.  Whether its doubting ourself, doubting our faith, doubting others, etc.  He made a valid point that journaling helps you in the hard times to be able to look back and prove to yourself that God has worked in your life. This helps you realize that God didn't leave you...it was in fact YOU that strayed away from Him.  Then he lead into helpful steps when you doubt: 1.) Admit your doubts...not always easy to do. 2.) Borrow some faith...lean on others who are confident at the time. 3.) Act on FAITH not doubt. 4.) Keep going back to what you know is truth. And we know all truth is God's truth. 5.) Go "all in" and give it your all no matter what the outcome might be.  We don't have all the answers, but God does. :)

2 Timothy 1 "I know whom I have believed."

On a side note, our day today was packed full of baby business. First, we scored a super deal at the Whimsical Wardrobe (one of the best kid consignment stores around) for a crib/changing table set for Luke Dean... I mean GREAT deal. Then headed over to eat a super yummy chicken-n'-dumpling lunch at Garrett's dad's house.  Then my favorite part of the day...we came home to move our precious little girl into her big girl room.  We have been working hard...well...Garrett has been working hard... to get it painted this weekend.  Its coming together and she's sleeping in it for the first time tonight.  Bitter sweet for this Mommy who rocked her at wee hours in the other bedroom.  Trying not to get too sentimental because I know its just preparing for her little spunky brother Luke to come along. You can see in the pictures that she is super excited about the reading corner.

TGIF

Long ago are the nights of the famous tv show "TGIF"...and if you know what I am talking about it starts to show both of our ages.  ;) I remember nights of watching family matters and full house all while eating bowls of pizza flavored popcorn. Falling asleep in our basement on top of piles of pillows and old comforters on hot summer nights.

Lately, Garrett and I have talked more and more about little traditions we want to have with our kids. One of those is family friday night. So far its only consisted of what-a-burger in Mooresville...but at least it is a start. Taking a baby out to eat seems like a conquest of its own at this point in our lives....and it may change to ordering pizza and a red box by the time little Luke comes. :)

...and excuse the messy kitchen in the picture. Just goes to show we actually live in it. 

Turtles life for me :)

Many who read the title of this blog probably think to themselves "The turtle...teacher?" Yes. If you know me, you completely understand my obsession with terrapins, and pretty much reptiles in general. The phrase "A turtles life for me" has taken a meaningful light in my eyes. Turtles not only slowly absorb what happens around them; but they also TAKE the time to notice life. That is a goal of mine. Slow down just long enough to see purpose, meaning, and beauty.  It just so happens that I'm not only a turtle....well science...enthusiast, but also a teacher. Being a Mommy of two will be my new adventure this year.  Can't wait to see how it goes!

On this blog, you will see that I am an enthusiast for anything simple and healthy.  I will be posting tips on cooking at home for a family, freezing whole foods, canning recipes, and anything else that might help simplify or HEALTH up your life.  You might see the occasional baby (or baby-bump) picture appear as well.  Hopefully I can help and inspire others to see the good in life!